Lesser Kind

Blog 253:

Caring for 'creatures of the lesser kind' isn't a picnic.  It requires genuine commitment, attention and patience.

You can't commit to pets temporarily, unless you're a caregiver for a day or so.  Commitment to be there for them day in and out must be transparent every single day.  Early in the morning, when they begin to wake you ... no matter the manner - a scratch on the bedpost or blanket, a lick in the face while you're still snoozing, and a determined bark that gets you up like it or not ... the request or demand to take them out so they could do their personal necessities outdoors, must be fulfilled.  You'll suffer the consequences - extra carpet or floor chore for you, if you don't readily respond! Attention is another must.  Whether it's the throw and fetch game, a body rubbing, a hug and a peck they clamor for, you must give and let happen.  Otherwise your buddies and bundles of joy would let you know for sure that you're a thoughtless, uncaring master.  When your pets deliberately sulk in a corner or aimlessly stare out a window, they send you that message:  "You don't love or care for me!"  You can't hide or run from an implied or overt body language they manifest.  Without patience, you achieve nothing.  It is true with everything and everyone you deal with.  Patience is required when you walk them with or without a reason. Pets love to think they are being walked so they could really exercise their bodies and minds.  They think they are out in the open range to smell the grass, the flowers, and everything in their path.  You could just not robotically walk them at you time frame.  They demand a leisurely time away from the confines of their abode. 

Undeniably, pets know when they are unconditionally cared for and loved.  It isn't easy to do, but practice makes perfect harmony for that coveted relationship your heart desires.  What do you get out of it?  Loyalty, companionship ... even the great feeling of being needed and loved back!